Are You Face Biased? Take This Test!

This test will tell you if you are unconsciously biased when you look at faces of strangers. Read on…

Psychologist Alex Todorov has conducted research at Princeton University proving when we see a new face, our brains decide whether a person is attractive and trustworthy within a tenth of a second. Within a tenth of a second! In less than a second we decide if someone is beautiful or unattractive, if someone can be trusted, or if they look shady. We make important judgements on people before knowing their life journey, their worldview, or even their name.

Look at the people below.


How long did you look at the pictures? Perhaps just two and a half seconds (a tenth of a second for each face)? What judgements did you make in that time?

If you were standing in a room with this group of people, and you were told to “partner up” with someone, who would you seek out? Who would you avoid?

Would you feel uncomfortable if any of these people sat next to you in your place of worship? Or on an airplane?  Continue reading


Philadelphia Reflections, Part Two

This week I concluded my visit to Philadelphia. I visited the gravesites of many relatives, including my great-grandparents, Paul and Mabel von Meurers.

Paul and Mabel de Meurers Gravestone

My great-grandparent’s final resting place is in Berlin, New Jersey, a short drive from Philadelphia.

I spent treasured hours reading archived copies of the Philadelphia Inquirer on microfilm in the Philadelphia Free Library. I found the story I was searching for in the March 13, 1899 publication.

Lizzy von Meurers' Death 3-13-1899

The Philadelphia Inquirer, March 13, 1899

Upon discovering the article, I immediately realized why it had been impossible to research online; the reporter misspelled the family name.

The story is one I knew from my great-grandfather’s autobiography, and it is tragic to say the least.  Continue reading

Philadelphia Reflections, Part One

Tonight, I sit in my great-grandfather’s adopted hometown of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. The lights below me shimmer from city center out into New Jersey. From my window, I can see the part of the world my great-grandfather lived most of his adult life.

Paul von Meurers

This photo of my great-grandfather was taken before 1915, and was used in his autobiography. At the time of the picture, he had adopted the name Paul de Meurers.

Earlier this week I walked along the streets my great-grandfather named in his autobiography. I was cognizant of occupying the same space more than 100 years later. I observed young homeless men preparing to sleep on the sidewalks. Many were the age of my great-grandfather when he, too, was homeless, trying his best to survive on the very same streets. Continue reading

Climbing My Family Tree, Part 24

Immigrants Francis Cooke, Hester le Mahieu Cooke, Jane Cooke, and Experience Mitchell

Francis Cooke (my ten times great-grandfather) was a Mayflower passenger. I stumbled across his lineage while investigating the Packards in Part 22. Francis was born in England in 1583. Curiously, we find him living in Leiden, Holland, about eight years before John Robinson and the rest of the Pilgrims arrived. This period was before the time of Protestant persecution in England under King James, so the original motivation to move to Holland is unknown. His occupation was that of wool comber. Continue reading